My wife can t find a job

I suggested marriage counseling, and she snapped that it would cost money and time she could spend looking for new work. You all complain about various financial pressures, but never once consider, at least audibly, that you could alleviate the stress on both your budgets and your burnt-out husbands by earning some money yourselves. Refer to 9 Ways to Help Your Family during Unemployment for specific ideas about how to counsel together as a family, help your children feel secure, and strengthen your family during this challenging time. My wife can t find a job [PUNIQRANDLINE-(au-dating-names.txt)

It's not the end of the world! Plan regular times together as a family to discuss feelings, finances, priorities and how everyone can pitch in to ease stress at home. Explain that everyone will have to sacrifice temporary cuts in allowances, cutting back on clothes shopping, etc. Remind children that you're in this together — and together you'll come through this, better and stronger for the adversity you've experienced, and perhaps with newfound compassion for others in similar circumstances.

Insist on at least one night a week when you can schedule time alone or with your own friends.


Help your husband understand that the time you spend on yourself will help you be a better spouse when you're together — because it will. Even in the best of times it's good to cultivate your own hobbies and interests. Remind yourself and your spouse to take this one day at a time. Help your husband avoid catastrophic thinking I'll never find work! Be positive in your attitudes and pray together every day for God's provision — for your physical, emotional and material needs, and for your relationship.

And keep talking! Deliberate communication mitigates the effects of depression and helps boost bruised self-esteem. Accept that you'll have good days and bad days.

How to Support Your Wife during Her Job Search

On the good days, discuss what makes them good and brainstorm ways to keep up positive energy going to bed at a reasonable hour, rising together, morning exercise, prayer time, etc. Maintain a routine as much as possible. Be mutually accountable, setting a daily agenda for both of you: job interviews, personal appointments, chores around the house, etc. Unemployment can make people want to withdraw — but avoid becoming socially isolated. They may also be able to help with childcare, finances, and providing encouragement.

The Church has many programs already in place for members dealing with unemployment.


Take advantage of LDS Employment Resource Services by asking your wife if she would like to go to an employment center. There she can attend the Career Workshopfind a job coach, and enroll in the Accelerated Job Search program. She can also search for jobs by creating a profile on LDSJobs.

Searching for a job often requires as much effort and energy as a full-time job. Counsel together about how you will accomplish the daily tasks of parenting and managing your household during this job search. Do everything you can to strengthen your relationship with your wife, and surround my wife can t find a job with friends and family.

These things can help reduce stress and maintain a sense of normalcy during a time of unpredictability. Your kids will be affected by this period of unemployment, so do what you can to make it a positive experience for them. Refer to 9 Ways to Help Your Family during Unemployment for specific ideas about how to counsel together as a family, help your children feel secure, and strengthen your family during this challenging time. Continue to pray, read the scriptures, and attend church together.

Consider fasting with the special purpose of helping your wife find employment. Set aside time to go the temple together as circumstances allow, and look for opportunities in guy sebastian new single you can both serve others.

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My Wife Doesn't Want To Get A Job!

Eileen Dooley and Bruce Sandy. Special to The Globe and Mail. Published May 20, Updated May 20, Comments Please log in to bookmark this story. Log In Create Free Account.

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